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 May 2009


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Oct 13, 2008


Oct 5, 2008


Sept 2008

August 2010

News from the home indicates that money has been in short supply as of late.  Of highest priority are the needs of feeding, clothing, and providing education and medical help for the children.  That means that at times, the workers have not been paid the full amount.  In addition, work that has been needed on the home itself is on hold until further funds come in.

Some of the work remaining includes these projects:

·  Fix/replace metal on the roof:  when it rains, which is rather often water gets in the house.

·  Finish the office

·  Rewire the house to provide stable electricity

·  Rebuild the exterior wall to keep it from falling in

If you have some extra to give, it would be of great help right now.  Many people spend thousands on projects for their own homes.  If each one would just think a little of the homeless, needs like those at the mercy home could easily be met. 

 

May 2009

One of our dear supporters practiced all spring to make a difference for our kids.  She ran, and talked to friends and family and her church and raised a good sum for our Home of New Life.  On May 18, she coverd the distance, a full 10 miles, each step not for herself, but for our Congolese family.  What a great idea and a terrific effort!  If you missed it and would still like to say, "Thankyou for the inspiration" to her, you can still let her know you're making a donation in honor of what she's done.  You can find her email and the details  here.  Donations can be made online or by mail by following the "give" link above.


 

January, 2009

We heard little from our home for awhile, but we know they're carrying on with this vital mission with joy.  The risk from their end has to do with the pressure many of us may be feeling financially, whether it's worry or a decline in real income.

Unfortunately, many developing countries experience a much greater effect on their income when the West goes into distress.  Investors become more risk averse and one of the first places to suffer is the more risky developing nations and emerging economies.  And when economic activity declines in these poorer countries, often the necessities of life itself are further stretched.  So let's continue to count our many blessings and continue to give from our relative abundance to those who are much needier.

The political event weighing on the DR Congo has to do with the war in the eastern part, near the Rwanda border.  Although it does not affect Kinshasa directly, it certainly has an indirect effect on the temperament of the government and on the availablity of resources for more profitable pursuits.  Furthermore, news reports indicate that people in the east are dying and under intense suffering.  Pray that a measure of peace will surface in this new year.

God bless you all.


Oct 13, 2008 - New Kids and Pics of the Home!

Murray Nickel emailed me with some exciting pictures -- no, thrilling.  The house is beginning to look very worthy of our survivors and workers, due to the magnificent work of our Congolese friends and generous BYS family support.  I'm just so enthused to see the terrific developments as the house becomes a more welcoming place for these weary pilgrims.  Check out what some plaster and tiling does.  You can see it in the before after images:



And, now the whole upstairs is tiled and you can see the beautiful work done by our good Congolese brothers and sisters:



They even added another couple of rooms over the "chapel" as first envisioned, making more space.

And here, is the reason for it all.  New kids.  Kids rescued from the street to find haven, healing, a future, and caring family.  Look at their faces, for a few moments.   You better believe they are smiling in part because of what you supporters have done for them with the help of God.

There's a good story that goes with this.  Murray writes, "Kapay passed by one of the boys on the street last week who left BYS several months ago.  At that time he could not take the discipline and wanted to go back to making money on the streets.  Now he was all dirty and had not eaten.  Kapay asked him if he wanted to come back to the home saying that the other boys his age were all fed, clean and going to school.  He emphatically insisted on going back and we all met him when we visited today.  In addition, BYS had just recently added another young child who we met."  That was in September.

There are now twelve children living at the Mercy Home itself, girls upstairs, boys downstairs.

Furthermore, there is now some furniture in the house, with a donation from the belongings Nickels owned while they lived in Congo.  The house is truly becoming a home.

Expenses are somewhat higher than anticipated with the price of cement having spiked to $30 from $10.  Hopefully with the worldwide economic slowdown prices will ease again.




Oct 5 2008 - Not the Church on the Corner
.  Presentation at Philadelphia (Watrous) MB Church.

I had an excellent opportunity to enjoy Thanksgiving and to present the work of BYS at Watrous on October 5.  The congregation was warm and all age groups were well represented.  I had the impression of a vital faith and genuine vitality.

I strayed a little from my message text because they gave me lots of time.  I talked about the prior "home" of some of our kids, an abandoned Belgian pool complex.  You can see a picture of it
hereWhen I was in Congo, our BYS leaders sang a song with the kids on those grandstands and explained again what we were trying to do, also leaving them some help.

I also explained that kitty corner to that complex is a church.  It's very nice looking on the outside, rather expensive.  Kapay explained to us that the church was a product of a "health wealth" pastor, who demanded that his charter members pay $10,000 USD to become members on the promise that it would produce even more wealth for them.  When members dried up, he lowered the price to $5,000 then $2,000.  I asked if this church had done anything for these street children whom they would see nearly every time they came out the doors.  The answer was "no".

Darren Holland, the pastor at Philadelphia MB spoke a prayer at the end of the service that was profoundly moving.  His prayer included the phrase, "may we not be that church on the corner."

The Batela church, the one that is helping these kids was across town, is making an effort to go and minister.  In some ways it's a miniature picture of the global church at times.  We can close our eyes to the need and make sure we get the dollars per member while revelling in our prosperity.  In the mean time, other followers of Jesus are sacrificing from their little to make an extended effort to go meet real needs.  Many churches are breaking out and it's exciting!

I welcome any comments -- just click on the forum or contact links above.



Maturing and Expanding:  Sept 2008, by Clarence Peters

The streets of Kinshasa buzz with activity, day and night. The streets swarm with people, as they are about their businesses. In many areas, they will be almost invisible, but they are there, by the hundreds and thousands. They are the street children of Kinshasa, abandoned by their families to survive on their own.

I had the privilege of visiting this colourful, noisy, distressed city in November of 2007. I came with a team to see what was being done and what could be done to bring some hope to those with little hope. Yet ultimately, we would leave with more than we came.

BYS is short for the Lingala Term "Home of New Life" which the originators have aptly named this ministry. The vision is compelling -- to indeed give children an opportunity at a whole new life in all its dimensions after having been exiled to the streets. And knowing that children do best in families, their first priority remains that of restoring the children to their families of origin. Sometimes, all it takes is a little economic assistance and the family is reconciled or is rent a modest home.

Nanou, age 12 when I saw her, was a hopeful young lady. She had suffered hardship on the streets and had been homeless along with her family. Her father is blind and had no way of supporting the family. The mother was not in the picture. BYS provided them all the opportunity to move into a home. Their despair was turned to hope and they were given a future.  Unfortunately Nanou (top right) died a few weeks after we visited with them.


We also visited several foster homes. There, often five to eight children were placed. With living expenses being subsidized, these children form a new family unit along with their foster parent or parents.

When homes can't be found, or during the transition phase, the children are housed in an orphanage style setting. The house we visited was perhaps four hundred square feet, housing over a half dozen youngsters. Beside it was a drinking hole where about a dozen men could observe the children and teens coming and going -- not ideal, especially for girls who once survived by prostitution. It was all they had, and it was certainly better than the street. However, its cramped quarters made it difficult to house more than just a handful of children.

Thankfully, with the initiative of our Congolese brethren and the generous donations of the BYS North American family that has all changed, in a big way. Instead of a small rental house, a large two story gated house is now theirs, also known as the Mercy Home.

Our walk-through in November showed that many renovations are yet needed, but the house is livable. We spent a morning painting, but it was just a very small start. Most of the work will be done by our African friends.

Almost all the local work is initiated and carried out by members of one amazing little church, as well as the Congo MB Conference missions chair, Kapay. The Batela church in Kinshasa bears both the vision and some of the expenses for the ministry. They try to include the children as their own. For instance, last Christmas they threw a big party for the children at the church.

This welcome and attention and care contrasts with the treatment many of them receive on the streets, where they are frequently the subject of military or police scrutiny, manipulation or abuse. Given that many must steal to survive, the situation is difficult.

Traditionally, Congolese families have been very attentive to their children. A few things have changed since the early nineties. With the swelling city population and war, families have often been stretched to provide even food. Sometimes parents will take turns fasting on a given day so the children can eat.

Just as troubling are the practices of a so-called "revivalist" church which blames any problem in the family on a child, alleging practices of sorcery. Some sources estimate that as many as 70% of the children have been so accused. This is consistent with the stories we heard from "our kids" at the Mercy Home. Sometimes, to elicit "confessions", that they are indeed sorcers, children are put under extreme pressure and even torture.

Thank God for the faithfulness of people like Pastor Muller, who builds relationships with these outcasts, wary of any adults. He spends time on the streets with them and frequently gives out food or other necessities.

When we were with them, we visited one of these communities of street children. An abandoned Belgian built swimming pool complex seemed an appropriate home for abandoned children. About fifty or so children and young adults were sprawled on the grandstands. Yet when Muller came with his guests, they seemed eager for conversation and news. They cheered when he handed a little aid to their leader. We sang a song or two and he gave a brief devotional. He explained that we were trying to do more, but that it would all take time.

Providing the house has been one step, but the ongoing expenses are really going to be the test of North American support. I believe we have the people who have this heart for the poorest of the poor -- for those who really cannot help themselves out of their situation without a hand up.

While some sponsorship agencies claim to be able to house, feed, clothe, and provide for the medical and education needs of a child for about $1 a day, we find that even with very frugal management and using local caregivers, that costs approach closer to twice that amount in Kinshasa.

So while not every donor may be able to afford $2 a day, we are so grateful for all gifts, smaller and larger, which serve to bring tremendous hope and practical care. And at present, while linking up sponsors with individual children would prove difficult and more costly, we hope to strengthen the North American "BYS Family".

When I first read these verses after returning home from Congo, they took on a whole new potency:

"Lord, you know the hopes of the helpless.
Surely you will listen to their cries and comfort them.
You will bring justice to the orphans and the oppressed,
so people can no longer terrify them."

Psalm 10:17-18 (NLT)





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