History
Staff
Affiliation
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The Problem
- Heart wrenching
Kinshasa is a city in distress. Economic
hardship has combined with spiritual terrorism to
blindside innocent kids, some of them very young. It wasn't always so. Congolese
families traditionally have a strong commitment to their
children. However, in the past years, the shortage of resources and a "prosperity
theology", combined with some historical practices is bringing parents do
the unthinkable.
The crisis will often develop like this:
something goes wrong in the family, maybe a job is lost or a family member has an accident. Someone or
something must be at fault. A local "pastor" is sought to identify
the spiritual problem and it is very often a child who is blamed. He or she is labelled as a sorcerer, the source of evil. The family is advised to get rid of the child or else perform an exorcism, and the problem will be gone or will not happen again. Given the economic stress many families are already under, the parents are open to the counsel. Some children will run away
before being subject to various forms of pressure or
abuse related to the exorcism. Others are simply told, "You must go."
The Solution - Courageous &
Compassionate Addressing the economic wrong thinking and practice is
ongoing and will take time. In the mean time something has to be
done to help the children.
We have a truly
compassionate team on the ground 24/7 in Kinshasa. They grew up
there. They speak the language; they know the customs and
needs. They are working to help the children. We think that's
a more sustainable and culturally sensitive model than
Westerners trying to do it all. They provide what we can't, and we
provide a little more than they're able to do on their own. It's a
great partnership and it's working.
It looks like this:
1.
Befriend the street kids. Our Congolese friends win
their trust, which often takes time. They focus on the same groups of children, providing them with emergency aid and food where possible and practical. They show them genuine love in practical ways and even remind them of the hope to be found in God.
2. Invite them to the
Mercy Home. A secure, gated home is offered as a refuge for those thought to be ready. It often takes several months to re-orient
the child to responsible social behaviour, and to give them time to
receive the love that's offered them. During this time, a balance of
education, food, shelter, and healthcare is offered. The goal is to
counter the spiritual terrorism and abandonment issues they have
experienced, and to assess their ongoing needs. Instruction in the true
Christian faith is also offered with sensitivity, considering the accusations and sense of confusion and guilt some of the children carry.
(For a satellite view of the home click here.)
3. Seek to re-unite them with their
family. Sometimes the parents need only a little economic incentive, or invitations to
reconcile. This is the preferred and first
option. Ongoing support is sometimes necessary.
4. Place them with a
foster family. Where reunion with their biological family
is impossible, living in another arrangement in a home is proves
more advantageous than living in an orphanage setting. Since there are
no government programs, support for the needs of the child must be secured
through donations from people like you.
5. Provide
them a place at the Mercy Home. Those who remain at the
Home often express their gratitude for this place of safety and refuge,
away from the harsh abuse of the streets. They are also given
growing responsibilities and find themselves part of a household in an
atmosphere of family, as much as is possible in such a setting. If
you look at the pictures, you will see the joy on their
faces.
6. Provide them with a
future. Education, health care and vocational training
serve to make the transition into adulthood a more hopeful one.
Several children have already "graduated" and are becoming
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History of
the Project"Bomoyi Ya Sika" or "Home
of New Life" began with the vision of Elmer Adams of Fresno, a
missionary to Congo. He saw the plight of street children and began to
reach out to them, along with a local, Pastor Muller Ndunzi. They offered
food, and tents, but unruly members of the military or
police would often confiscate or destroy anything of value. It took
months for these adults to build trust with the wary street
children.
Elmer returned to North America, but the vision not only
continued but enlarged. With the sacrifice of the middle-class poor and a
little help from outside, they began to rescue children from off the
street. Their vision was not only for an orphanage, but to unite the
children with their parents where possible. Sometimes a few dollars a
month was all that was needed to restore the economic balance and restore
a family.
Pastor Muller was instrumental in the continuation, and
adopted two street children as his own (Eunice and Patricia).

For several years, a small rental house sufficed as
the transition house and orphanage. Unfortunately it was located adjacent
to a drinking hole. Children and teens, whose past often included survival
prostitution had to walk within a few feet of these men to get into the
home.
A vision was promoted for a larger, more secure house. A
home was located nearby. A funding appeal came to interested people in
North America. Several individuals and churches contributed generously,
and within a year it was purchased. There are still considerable
renovations to complete, and some furniture to get in there, but it's in
full use.
For a satellite view of the neighborhood of the home Click here. You may be able to pick
out the backward L shaped house.
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Staff
Pastor Muller takes major responsibility for overseeing the
work and works in cooperation with his church leadership at the Batela
Church.
He is also joined by Pastor Kapay (below right)
who is the missions chair of the Congo MB Church.
Furthermore, the
amazing church that Muller is a part of throws parties for the kids
and adopts them into the church family in a beautiful way. The
Batela church is really a story in itself -- middle class poor who are
supporting those with less than they have. They support various
outreach ministries, including the Bon Berger (Good Shepherd) medical clinic -- Truly
amazing and inspiring.
Caregivers like Mama Honorine (left), share
their love so graciously, and are not adverse to a little happy dance now
and then! Bijou (center) volunteers tirelessly with
joy. Other caregivers and workers are not pictured. Perhaps you will take a trip to meet them one day. They would be pleased to show you Bomoyi Ya Sika, Home of New Life!

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